BOSTON (CBS) – Do you think Dad is having trouble maintaining his home? Is the garden over run with weeds? Are you mowing the lawn? Stairs becoming a problem?
How about getting in and out of the tub? He may not tell you about that, but you may first notice he is not bathing as often as he used to.
Do you think Dad would benefit from a different living arrangement? Does Dad think he may need a different living arrangement? If he does, you are golden for it is then easy to get his buy in for you to help.
Multi-generational living is becoming mainstream again. There has been a 70% increase in the past decade of parents moving in with the kids.
Do you add an apartment to your home for him? Do you move in with Dad because his house is bigger than yours?
Can his present housing be adapted so that Dad can stay there? Are there services provided through the local area Agency on Aging that can help Dad stay in his home?
Can you hire someone to mow the lawn and shovel the snow? Does the house need some remodeling such as adding a bathroom and bedroom downstairs that would make it one floor living for Dad?
Does Dad add an apartment to his house so someone can live there and periodically look in on him in exchange for cheaper rent? Does someone move in with him?
According to Genworth Financial’s 2014 Elder Care survey, the average cost of an Assisted Living facility nationwide is close to $42,000. In Massachusetts it’s close $63,000.
Start your search with the Eldercare Locator to find assistance here in Massachusetts as well as anywhere in the country. Their website lists information on services and programs in Massachusetts for our elders. There phone number is 800-677-1116.