BOSTON (CBS) – Do like Santa; take the time to sit down with pen in hand and make out a list of who you are planning on buying presents for. Then go over that list! Then go over it again.
Do you and your neighbors need to exchange gifts? It may have started innocently enough when the kids were small, you bought token presents but now they are permanently ensconced on your list.
What about you sister and brother-in-law in Chicago? Every year they send you something from one of the food catalogs in the Midwest that sells the cheese in rolls and you dutifully send them a ham from the same place. You have been doing this for 20 years!
Pare down the list! Talk to your family, friends and co-workers for they may feel as overwhelmed as you do.
With your list in hand write down what you want to purchase for each person and put a dollar amount next to the name. Browse the internet; check out catalogs and the newspaper ads so you have an idea what items should cost. Then start shopping.
When you are out and caught up in the spirit of the Holidays it is so easy to overspend. And it is easy to overspend using the internet. For it doesn’t seem real. You give them your credit card and they send you the stuff later.
When you head out to the mall try leaving your credit cards at home and just taking cash with you. Once the cash is gone you are done shopping! If you have the discipline to do it, you will definitely stay within your budget.
Another hint to stay within the budget is if you are using your checkbook or a credit card, keep track, a running total, of what you are spending as you shop. Put the amount next to the person’s name. Again once you reach your limits you’re done!
Beware of that Shopping Syndrome, that’s where you head out again at the last minute because you don’t think you have bought enough and you come home with “stuff!
A few more words of advice about shopping: Put on comfortable shoes and go shopping by yourself. Don’t take the kids, your mother, your friends or your sister. That may include your spouse also. They will talk you into too many things. You will be much more efficient alone and there will be no distractions!
And it is a sad state of affairs when we need to advice you to be careful in the parking lots and at the ATMs. We want you to be safe shopping.
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